Use of Mom-Son Relationship to Manipulate

Max just told me he won't let me watch our son during the day anymore. He announced this with his back to me immediately after baselessly interrogating me about how i am "treating" him (I'm not doing a single thing to treat him any way. I'm just existing.) and why it means im mad at him(??).

I asked him why he said that to me (re Haven).

Max told me that there is no benefit to me taking care of Haven.

I asked Max why he thought it was more beneficial for Haven to spend all day at a daycare than with his mother, me, who wonderful Max and family have kept maliciously apart for the larger part of Haven's life. Max said he didnt say that.

I told Max that he did say that when he said theres no benefit to me taking care of my son.

Max ignored that and moved on to more of his weak lies.

Max said: "My house is trashed."

I asked Max how "his house" became trashed.

Max ignored my question. I asked him again and he ignored me again. Check out the pics I took upon my arrival here a few days ago, and then see the pics I'm attaching of what it looks like here this very second with no help from Max.

Also, that same evening, not much prior to the time he told me he won't let me watch my son during the day while he's at "work" because there's no benefit to it, despite being within a 15-foot proximity to me, Max began to harass me about sex/how I dont want to fuck him via text message. See attached screenshots from that night of these texts between Max and I.

So maybe that has something to do with his god-like decision that Haven benefits more while in a school-like-setting daycare than in a home setting with his mother.