Update: Max actually had 3 vibrators of mine locked in a safe Thats nailed to the floor in the

Closet. I don’t know where the 4th he’s stolen in the past 1.5 years went.

Also he told me that’s all he’s ever kept in the safe. Nothing else.

Dear dr. PhilAbbie:

is this normal behavior or should I be concerned about potential mental health issues?

Specifically, how does the stealing of 3 of my vibrators (even tho we’ve been the opposite of intimate toward each other. At least when we’re awake. Max thinks my body is up for use whenever I’m unconscious.) possibly relate to this persons pattern of physical and emotional abuse in the past, and what could it mean for the future?