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---------- Forwarded message --------- From: Tess Birdja <tasstauver@gmail.com> Date: Tue, Sep 8, 2020 at 6:48 AM Subject: Fwd: FW: Haven Wagner developments To: Teressa Tess Fauver <wrong.old.ray.gun@gmail.com> ---------- Forwarded message --------- From: Tess T <tasstauver@gmail.com> Date: Wed, Aug 28, 2019 at 3:35 PM Subject: Re: FW: Haven Wagner developments To: Johansen, Lauren <lajohans@kingcounty.gov> I have continued going to the recommended group/classes as per the assessment treatment plan. The class presenter seems to REALLY like me, and after every meeting tells me that I provide valuable input and great suggestions to other parents in attendance. I was thinking about, and am planning on (it's just following through with the plan that is the issue) soliciting simple statements from the class presenter, hospital staff from the 2 weeks that Haven and I lived at the hospital in May 2019, anyone else I can think of, and maybe even using affidavits from the custody disputes over my daughter that report my genuine and attentive parenting....I was also wondering if we will ever be able to come forward with the fact I was living with Max's parents and that they kicked me out to the street, where I still am, a week after refusing to help me with $500 to move into an apartment I had been approved for. More importantly, to the fact that while I lived with his parents, I was Haven's caretaker nearly every hour of every day - I am sure that in the 2 - 3 months I was there, I did not spend more than 36 hours TOTAL away from the home and Haven.We were together all the time - I never complained and rarely asked for assistance. I've never had anything physically pain me - it's agony, I can't even begin to express how awful - to know he is not getting that kind of attention anymore, to know that Max doesn't care if he's cold or if he screams, that no one is paying attention to him - it fucking kills me. Will there never be a point in time when that truth can be known? It is such a big part of my custodial rights and Haven's well-being. Since child well-being guidelines are supposed to be followed, can we not tie those in somehow? I have never shown myself negligent in any manner in relation to the care, physical and emotional, for my son. Thanks Lauren. I'm sorry for being so emotional. I still don't have a phone with a service provider. Please let me know if I should still call? Or if you want to meet at all this week? Thank you On Mon, Aug 26, 2019 at 9:18 PM Johans

Hey Lauren - I'm not doing well at all. I've been having an incredibly difficult time functioning. I haven't been allowed to see my baby son in weeks and every day I'm just about crippled in anxiety and grief over how this must be effecting him and knowing he is not getting near the love and care he did with me. Max and his parents have absolutely shocked me with their indifference to Haven's needs and how what they're doing to us is going to negatively effect Haven for the rest of his life.

I finally made up my mind to get a mental health assessment done as soon as I can get myself somewhere in a timely manner. Doing ANYTHING - especially something that I plan out - seems to be just about impossible - I don't have any real human support aside from myself, and I am officially down and out for the count. I can't deal with the anxiety and whatever else this is any more - it hurts me so, so, terribly - the same intense amount every day, if not worsening every day. I need medication if I have to keep living like this.

When Max drove his car from my friend's apartment building, he took items I had ready to be mailed to purchasers, my backpack filled with personal documents, and the rest of my laundry. I did not have any drug paraphernalia in his car. I also did not take anything from his car. Is it possible that the purported paraphernalia was Max's, or that his parents are full of crap in their claim? Do they have pictures of where they found it, or how or when? Do they have a right to drive off with my belongings and then go through them without my permission? I have come across text messages between Max and his ex-girlfriend, a drug dealer in Kirkland, that were sent between February and July 2019 where Max is, in plain English, asking for drugs and having them delivered to or near his parent's house. In them, his ex-girlfriend also threatens to burn his parent's house down and makes many physical threats towards and derogatory statements about me. I don't know if this evidence would help me with re to Haven, or if it would just make things worse right now.

I have since asked for my things to be returned and have been denied - I was told that Max and his family had disposed of my belongings and they claimed that the SPD told them I had abandoned my property - something I don't believe, because I spoke with an officer who told me that I had a right to retrieve my property and that they would assist me. The officer I spoke with was actually an officer who was present when Max was arrested - the officer recognized me in 7-11 on Capitol Hill and struck up a conversation. I think Max must have

ol Hill and struck up a conversation. I think Max must have been talking a lot of shit to them or something - the officer did not look pleased when I told him that Max had been released.

In other news - Max was with his stepfather Carlos when I went to the car to get more laundry (I had driven it from my storage - where Max got arrested - to my old roommate's apartment building to use her laundry room. She lives less than a mile from the storage facility I rent at, and Max knows the location well (obviously). Carlos and Max were standing together behind some shrubs away from the car and at the street corner. I saw the two men muttering to each other hurriedly, but I have terrible long-distance sight, and didn't make out their faces. I thought they were construction workers for a building going up next to where they were standing. Max's stepdad Carlos walked up to me without saying hello and told me that I was to give him the keys and take my things so that the "situation" could be resolved." I was caught totally off guard, but agreed. Then, Carlos started to tear into me again without provocation, telling me I'm "a joke," among other very inappropriate and uncalled-for things. I calmly asked him to please not speak to me that way and when he continued, I said, "Just one second. I'll be right back." I turned and walked away to get my cell phone so I could record the way I am spoken to by Max's parents. Someone I knew came from my friend's building and saw the look on Carlos' face. They knew my story and while I went to retrieve my phone from indoors, Carlos and my friend argued. I did not feel comfortable going back out amidst a heated argument - I almost always insist on civil communication, no matter how heated emotions are at the time. Additionally, my stress levels are incredibly high and my emotional state ridiculously fragile,and I couldn't walk back into more undeserved hostility. (I remain clueless as to the root of Max's family's sudden fierce disfavor for me. In any case, within 20 minutes police had arrived and they ended up being the middle man in my getting Max his car keys back. I never planned to keep his vehicle from him and it is ridiculous how it was treated as a heated matter when there was no argument to be had in the first place.