Control Tactics (0 info re return)(disappearing), Late Night Random Verbal Abuse & Threats

Refused to tell me via text when he'd be back. Told me he had no idea when he'd be done with 'work.' It was after 5pm when he told me that. Then he Insisted i provide detailed specifics On why i was asking when he'd be back I.e. tell him my plans. I'd been attempting to coordinate times with a few people so i could test drive a vehicle they were selling, Which is a time-sensitive task, due to the 1st come 1st serve nature of the exchange. If there's a car i see that I want, Theres likely going to be competition for it, so i kinda have to jump on it. With him not giving me any time at all, i was unable to schedule anything and 1 out of the 3 cars i was planning to look at; and the 1 I actually wanted out of the 3, was sold Before i had a chance to look at it. He did the same thing to me today.

then when he got here, i was discussing the test drive i was able to schedule with Haven. I also discussed it with Max a little and told him i felt like i might just purchase the car that night, because the price seemed right and how much i was itching to finally have a car again. despite my words, Max kept making comments about my appearance, what time it was, etc. in ways that made it seem like he thought i was lying: you're going to wear that for a test drive? Isnt it a little late to be going for a test drive? Who wears a mini skirt for a test drive?

it was later than i said id show up, but the seller was down the street, locates pretty close at 22nd and Jackson, and being very relaxed about the time, so at 840 i was trying to get a lyft up the hill from Leschi to Jackson street, but every time Max made himself visible, he would immediately retreat out of line of sight the second he saw me using my phone to arrange a ride, like, he would scuttle away like a scheming crab that was also nimble and quick in the shell. It was very obvious what was going on. After all that, plus the incredible amount of stress that the effort of locating, inspecting, and purchasing a vehicle apparently puts on me (last time, not that long ago, i was pretty much bedridden for a week after a test drive), i became suddenly quite nauseated and tired. I slid to the concrete with my butt and rested my head and arms on my knees quietly. Max came up to me about 4 times and loudly said to me about 6-7 times: I'm sorry your plans fell through or whatever, but what are you doing? You're making a huge scene and all the neighbors are disturbed. Youre making them nervous and they're wondering what's going on. i didnt say anything in response. He left haven and i outside. Haven got my attention for something and i hung out with him until there was no more light. I picked up and arranged his toys in the yard and in front of the house. I helped him recycle a water bottle. i took out 4 bags of garbage yesterday and did 3 loads of dishes. Max still hasnt bought haven any food after all these months. The things he could say he bought for Haven, like a small container of blue erries or raspberries, were thjngs max wants to eat and purchased when he was already at The store buying himself his at-home rations. I have been providing for 75-90% of Haven's diet, excluding milk. haven and i came inside and i laid down in the bedroom, sick Still. I didnt turn any lights on. I passed out almost immediately. I woke up around 1230am and got a bowl of ice cream and sat in the living room in the dark. max followed me. He went into the kitchen and did nothing. He left the kitchen and tossed over his shoulder, after pretending to look at his watch and just that second noticing the date (in the dark): oh, happy birthday.

after a few minutes, he came back into the dark kitchen. he put his hands on the kitchen counter and leaned toward me. He started going off. What gives you the right to act like you do? "Youre not the only show in town." You NEVER talk to me about anything. NEVER. If all you want to do is hold onto the past, then thats your choice, but dont take it out on me. Youre always SUCH a bitch to me. You shouldnt even BE here, why are you here?