Continued Stalking of Me

Fetlife login after years of no activity - Max’s sudden, bizarre, extreme withholding of things ..: bizarre until he tells me I need to hook up with a “friend” from Fetlife

somehow finding my Mercari account online (I have yet to find a way to perform a user name search) and analyzing it, accusing me of ”stealing” from him even though the things he accuses me of stealing are all in this apartment, constantly digging through my personal belongings as though they were his and Intentionally making a mess of them.

quite sure he’s not looking for anything in particular, just hoping to find something to justify and further fuel his self victimizing bitch on the rag temper tantrum antics. I’m sure because he can't ever tell me what he’s looking for. when pressed, he’ll tell me he owes me no explanation and he has no obligation to tell me anything. Or that I’ll never change how I think about him so why should he bother wasting any more of his time discussing anything with me ever. And he doesn’t give a fuck what I think and “fuck you”

He’s good at trying to keep fingers pointed at me by completely changing the subject and accusing me of further misdoings I have to defend myself agains, always things irrelevant, far in the past, and made nearly completely of well-twisted, exaggerated or completely fictional happenings.

original post: June 6, 2022

update:

I reset the settings on my phone and doing so removed the access password. I didn’t have a pass code for using my phone for about a week, which I found very convenient. However, at the end of that week, I found that my phone had been accessed by someone while it was charging overnight in the living room. This happened without question because more than a dozen of my unread text messages were opened; the number indicating messages unread went down from 99 to less than 80. Additionally, many apps that I don’t use were opened, such as the calendar app (?) and Google maps (Also “?” Where does he think I’m going, and why would that place be something he’d find beneficial to know about? ). I find this unsettling due to the short amount of time that I didn’t have A password and what that means in terms of the frequency with which Max Wagner checks my frequently unattended cell phone hoping for compromised access security. *as far as I can recall, Ive had a pass code requirement for access.* it means his timing was a huge coincidence during a period in which he’s been stalking me, otherwise it means he’s been regularly trying-and failing-to access the contents of my phone for god knows how long now, and was finally successful. And completely disappointed. Because I am the most absolutely uninteresting person now.

Also. More degrading, excessively sexual, and unprovoked text messages about sex. At 2am-ish last Thursday (today is Monday), he sent me 2 pictures of myself from over 5 years ago. the pictures were taken during times he and I were doing sex stuff at the 2-bedroom + full size basement & garage house I lived at back then in the Magnolia neighborhood of Seattle with my 15 year old daughter, 3 birds, and Binx The Kitty. Max and I knew each other less than a grip of months at the time. And that time frame was lifetimes ago. Seriously so far from the present day reality for me that it may as well have been someone else in those pictures.

So he sent those pictures and followed with these messages, which I’ve not responded to:

Also: I was a crazy alcoholic back then. Without exaggeration, I drank more than half a fifth of vodka via shots every single night, weekend and weekday, every single day for years. I called the cops on him grips of times for assaulting me and stealing from me, but he always ran away.

Further, he would tell me he loved me and crap, but the entire time was having intercourse with and behaving as though he were the boyfriend of his long-time girlfriend and drug dealer, Gretchen Green. So every time I found out I’d get very very alcoholic upset. AND if I was so very sexy and fun as to be causing him to fantasize about that previous Magnolia alcoholic me over 5 years later, why was he relentlessly cheating on me with his extremely unattractive and clinically obese common law wife drug dealer?

also, that spurned him into re-stalking me here, on Wix. he’s been actively reading all kinds of stuff on here and making snide remarks about whatever he’s stuck on in the moment. He thinks I should write good things about all the nice good things he’s done for me out of the kindness of his heart, and left me this note to prove his point:

Obviously, I’ve been incorrectly protraying his character, behaviors, and actions.

This note was left after he without notice departed at 12am. He didn’t speak to me, but to Haven. He told Haven he was leaving and hed be back “in a bit.” I called after him as he walked away and asked Him why he didn’t speak to me about how he was leaving me with Haven without warning after being Absent the majority of Haven’s waking hours, um, all the time. And in the middle of the night. I told him it was weird and unhealthy the way he treats me in front of Haven and to please stop.

Max didnt come back until that morning between 7am and 925am, when he snuck inside for coffee and food and to use the toilet and left again without a word to Haven or I. I know he came back because of how he left the bathroom - I’d set up Haven’s toilet stairs/seat for him to be able to use, and this had been removed from where I’d put it and set Aside- and the state of the coffee machine and the food garbage he left out for me to clean up.

After Max’s sneaky Saturday morning visit, he didn’t make an appearance again until around 8:00pm.

Since then, Haven has been babying his teddy bears frequently throughout the day, wrapping them in his favorite blankets with the tags in their reach, then hugging them close and talking to them and kissing them. mama, look! he calls out to me, grinning and squeezing the bear close to his face and chest, then holding his free arm out wide for me to come over and participate in the snuggling, which I do with much humbleness. So sweet.

The other day he told me one of his toys was crying. I asked him why it was crying. He said because they missed their daddy.

Also, I found this on the squeaky brown chair Max sits in after Max went into the bathroom:

Again, disturbing to me because what does he think he’s going to hear? What the f***does he think is going on and why does he think that? This is one Paranoid, obsessive, stalker individual who has been extremely Violent to me for many years now, and whose also raped me and robbed me many times. His stalking is kind of new as far as I know, just since Haven’s been born or maybe like just 1.5-2 years it’s been happening. For no reason. And its only getting worse after him not finding anything to be mad about. And that scares me. What next, you know? If he’s mad about me documenting what he does, why doesn’t he just stop doing that stuff, instead of acting exactly how I’ve documented, which makes him mad to read about?

p.s. I think this one is super fun (see “Not just Max” at upper right corner):