0 groceries, weird obsessions

Told me today he "had to" finish a iob today (see texts) then came back after 3pm instead of 230 like he said-after i pulled teeth to get statement re any kind of schedule out of him.

When back at 3, said hed stopped everything so he could be at the apt so i could check my mail - such sacrifice.

When we got back to apt around 4pm haven was asleep. Got him back to sleep and asked max if he was going back to finish job bc i was hoping he could drop a box at mail place for me.

He said he didnt have to go back today.

I asked why he'd said he HAD TO finish the job today and he didn't answer.

Instead, he said he had to leave and "pick something up."

He didnt say when he'd be back. Haven was awake when he left and screamed for a while after he (Max) rushed out.

Max once again went to store and got 0 groceries for haven.

Also today he became bitchy about me being sick again, very very bitchy, and was harrumphing about like a fat pheasant with a quill stuffed up his butt so far that it was displacing his spleen. He barreled past me into the bedroom with something and made sure to swipe me with the toe of his closest shoe, the side of his hairy knee, and whatever he was carrying.

I pretended to try and trip him on his way out of the room in response.

So he stepped back and kicked me, then when he was walking away, he sprayed my head with a bottle of chemical household cleaner. I don't know what kind.

Then he told me i am nothing to him.

I bought haven pizza delivery for dinner since nothing for him to eat.

Max scrambled to make something Haven would eat to try and spoil my plans of feeding my son (im not exaggerating- this is what he does).

Ive been trying to check my mail for 2 months.

Last week, he wouldnt even give me his schedule for the day we were existing in and told me i would know it as soon as he did.

Then he left haven with me until 1130pm without notice and

the next night, left him with me overnight without warning or letting me know at any point that day that he didnt plan to return "soon," as he'd misinformed Haven earlier when he left my apartment for "work." I never received apology or explanation for these incidences.

The first time he did it a few weeks ago (was that actually the first time? Not sure), he acted very apologetic and made up a weak lie. Cole has characteristics that cause the same actions, and often, if not always)

I seriously think there are some

serious mental dysfunction processes that have become habitual/manic/psychotic/part of Max personality.

He refuses to buy Haven food. Refuses.

He goes to the store all the time. Most recently he took 2 hours to "buy a mop" and brought back a 6 pack of cinnamon rolls - something haven doesnt eat. He brought back energy drinks. He got Haven nothing.

He does have a very very strange obsession with making Haven eat red meat, deli meats, salami and lil smokies and steak in particular. He's "worried Haven's not eating enough protein."

He also has a weird obsession with the bubble blowing machine outside.